Whenever someone tag you or define you by their own understanding, they will miss the opportunity to meet the real you, and this is a good thing, whoever that automatically judge another person by his own perspective of what is wrong or right, has no room in his mind to listen, to care, to pay attention to whom is infronf or beside them. You may want to let this people go, since there is no intention at all to discover anything new in others, than what they have created in their own minds so no new information will be welcome, they will use it to tag everybody, and learn from nobody.