The importance of letting go ( Chapter 16 )
2022-04-03 17:43:10 - Elizabeth
In my healing journey i have learned to face the fear of letting go the known, letting go the situation i cannot control, letting go the future and the past because, there is nothing i could do, to change or prevent it, it does not means it was easy to learn, it is a new daily habit i am trying to respect as it is, i am speaking to myself about it, whenever the control wants to take over, i remind myself what i have been through to learn such a hard lesson as i have learn many more in the last four months of my life. All i know and i can confirm is, that, is not something you learn and it automatically becomes a part of you or your character, it is something we need to re afirm every single day, it is like when we practice gratitude, it is an every day life style, in every moment in any situation, so it is the same with letting go, because maybe our will power is more than ready to do it, but then, our ego reminds that he loved to believe he had control over everything even though we know, it wasnt never a reality. So, my mistake previous this lesson was, thinking, once i learn to let go, it will be so much easier, because i thought it was a button in myself to let go, that will work effortless everytime the control try to come back, well no, it doesnt work that way, it is something we have to keep in mind until our brain sees it as familiar reaction to any situation. What a powerful lesson! not only i have learn that, this is the healthier way to live for me, and one of the changes that i needed, but also that i have to still put effort to constantly remind it to myself. Thankful for another amazing lesson in my life!