During the storm ( chapter 4 )

This is also one of the hardest part of our journey. Because in order to heal and change, we must go through it, without previous advice or not being notifying that we are there already. The storm comes in many different forms, it could be depression, it could be sadness, it could be a physical illness, and so many ways to manifest as our storm. We are not going to talk about the mentioned ways of storm but about ourselves inside and during the storm process. This season of our lives, is one of the most hard but also the most imnportant that we will experience if, we have accepted the deal to heal for real, because the unknown process will always give us anxiety, uncertained feelings, and many doubts and worries, it is almost impossible for someone who overcame a storm to tell you that person did not face one of those feelings, that is why it is called storm and not heavenly sipirtual vacations. Because during a storm, we will feel uncomfortable, unsure, insecure and all those feelings are the ones we never like to have, not even for a minute but, those feelings are the alerts for us! the signals we need to keep going and not giving up in the middle of this huge process. The signals of what we tag as bad feelings are the ones that will deliver our healing so, even if it looks bad, feels horrible still has a positive side we cannot see nor detect unless we overcame the storm. Uncertainly feelings are always something we avoid to have, not knowing it is the first door we open to heal, it is like our brain is saying, listen up! you been ignoring us for a long time already, enough is enough, and if you keep ignoring us we will have to come up and show up as it is, usually in a painful ways, wether it is physically or mentally, it is always painful, if we have been ignoring it for too long. The storm comes and there is no one, and nobody that can stop it, once it appears there is nothing else to do than facing it or fighting against it, which i will never ever recommend, since i have tried, and it went wrong, and also transformed my little storm in a huge one, so if you want an advice from a person who have tried, just dont! i promise you facing it when it comes is ten times better than saying * i will do it in another time * You cannot run from it, it will find you in your best moment, and then, you will know it was trying to get out for a long time by now. Face the storm!!!!!!! Yes, i know many people who havent been there, is always giving advices about it, how to do it, when, with who, etc. In my case, i been there many times.